Some of my thoughts I thought I want to share it here since some time ago, after witnessed all the conflicts that happened to friends around me for pass few months.
These mostly occur from girls who got coupled, and most of them have the habit on mocking/stalking their current partner's ex lover/admirer. Seriously, doing all these just making life more miserable and tougher...... what for?
Anyhow, there's no restriction for you to check out on them, but there's no need to feel all sensitive about it when he is now belongs to you. Why bother angry on the ex when they done nothing to you nor your current bf? I don't see a point.
If they are planning to harm your relationship. Ok, then you are permitted to draw your cat claws! MEOW!!!! (only if u have discussed with your partner, and only for the purpose of protecting your dignity and reputation, NOT PRIDE!)
Comparison between their PAST memories they once had and the memories that you are now building with him, questioning your Boyfriend why is he so nice to her that time and not to you. Indirectly you're demanding for more from your Boyfriend.
But do know, bf doesn't want you to compare about the PAST memories of theirs when it does no longer matters, provided there's really big difference in treatment. However, changes happen, there's a reason why they break up/had their affection towards another faded, and tend to protect themselves more and not be dominated anymore. If you want to gain better memories, give and take then! Most importantly, security and trust in yourself, for that, the opposite would be able to give more love and attention to you.
Jealousy occurs whenever you go through the ex lover/admirer's profile, tweets, blogs, pictures, and so on. Checking how they look, decreasing your own self-confidence. It often happens when friends became enemies as they coupled with someone use to be theirs. Stupid rumours start spreading out one by one to cause problems. You know, "you who started it, must know how to end it"
Common happening:
1. those who stalks tend to keep their profile on privacy away from you
(OK~.... Do we even bother?)
2. silent back stabber
(ugh~ lame)
3. comparing better stuff between one another
(@.@ now THAT IS PATHETIC especially when you are forcing your partner to buy. So please be advise not to do that, or u'll end up with the name of "Gold-digger", not "Happiness")
4.wasting time to create dramas/hatred on people who does nothing on you
(seriously?? you will need to get a better life)
5. creating rumours so that people around can actually thinks that you are better (erm, apparently it may turn out the other way if those are false rumours, and being a bitch too much)
6. BITCH-STARE
7. fakers in the air!
8. stalk and mock silently through facebook, twitter, blogs, myspace, and bloody other social networks (If you wanna read it then stop whining on their old post about how they were when they were together. Its already PAST for god sake!!!!! )
9. comparing outlook
(personality is all it counts, if one is pretty from the outside ONLY, you're still UGLY!)
10. comparing what their BFs has [if both side are coupled] (poor boys... tsk tsk)
so there are 2 alternate ways to do so
intelligent defense! ROAR!! (Only if there's necessity)
but for those who are stubborn and dunno how to back off...
intelligence defense may be too advance for them
go easy
And if lazy
just like a sentence goes by
IGNORANCE is BLISS!!
And again~ No offence!!!
Chill chill, peace out!
Ps: Please do not bookmark the ex's blog/twitter/tumblr on your browser bar, you're bound to get yourself nightmares only!
